Wednesday, March 08, 2006

He is mine....

This is mine... he is mine.. we often say these lines may be not openly but within ourselves.. ..oh ye... iam talking about possessiveness.. i just cant stop being possessive for my love ones ... doesnt matter how hard i try not to be ..i always fail miserably :( till date am unable to find the cause for it.. well! to be true i always used to wonder why people get so possessive for smone till i wasnt in love ..but now i think i top the list .. hehe.. they say when u love someone its justified to get little possessive for that person... but how much?? a bit.. a byte or wht? how to decide that amount.. and how can u measure it? mmm according to me if lack of it can give an impression as i dont care at all.. then excess of possessiveness can be a threat to r'ship too coz after certain limit u start suffocating yr partners personal space.. a space which is most important for an individual n for an everlasting r'ship ..well.. doesnt matter how little or much it is.. but it hurts for sure... wow!! amazing i understand everything but still i cant change myself.. ye think its really hard to change sm basic things within u:( ...if u'll ask me how much i can be possessive .. i'll say if its in my hand i'll hide him behind seven curtains... heheh..kidding.. but i do follow this trend at times that whts mine is mine rest can go to world's charity ..i dont mind :P
love.. hate.. jealousy.. kindness.. possessiveness.. all these feelings exists in all of us... coz we r humans.. but excess of everything is bad... so we have to set the limits somewhere ..but how??
 
posted by faith at 11:35 AM, |

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  At March 09, 2006 5:32 AM Blogger faith said:
mm trust n possessiveness r different.. am nt afraid of losing him i mean nt for smone else ..i trust him still iam possessive ..

~~maybe next time it will be easier...lolllllllll~~
huh.. is that so..

~~I hope he understands...winks~~
o ye.. he is the best.. no one can be more understanding than him :)

*smiles*
  At March 09, 2006 12:08 PM Blogger Pinks said:
first of all..amazing template...too good...n abt possessiveness it is true dat we have to set our limits otherwise u'll end up losing that person...
  At March 09, 2006 9:37 PM Blogger faith said:
pinks.... thanks pinks *smiles* n u rt we hv to set limits but its kinda hard smtimes.. whn possessiveness hits u just go blank.. lolll cant think of anything that time.. atleast am like that.. but ye wrking towards it lets see *smiles*

confused.... thanku.. n point noted.. dont worry i wont let him go to alaska.. damn its too cold there.. *smiles*
  At March 12, 2006 8:59 AM Blogger fursat said:
There is no answer to your question because no matter what anyone would say, it won't matter untill the change comes from within you. It's human to have all these emotions and so everything you are feeling is very normal behaviour.

I don't know how to reduce possesiveness as I am a very possesive person myself. If you find the answer, do tell me too...LOL

By the way, I love your new template. It's very serene...
  At March 14, 2006 1:11 AM Blogger faith said:
yup u r rt..
~~If you find the answer, do tell me too...LOL~~
haha wc n join the club :P

thanks..

*smiles*
  At March 19, 2006 12:19 PM Blogger Pri said:
well it can be flattering to hav someone being overpossesive bout u at times...makes me feel good :)
n yeah i can be ultrapossesive too but thn i muss be totally head over heels bout tht person..sigh! no wonder it makes me happy to see someone possesive bout me...:D
  At April 06, 2006 11:35 PM Blogger SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said:
Hah...the age old dillema...I have a post of jealousy vs possessiveness....As you rightly mentioned we need to be a bit possessive or it may reflect tht we dont care tht much and we can't afford to strangulate the other person either....YOu know, wait n see...How does your partner nehave n under wht circumstances is he possessive of you...You can be possessive in the same mould....:) I think I lost u !


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