Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Random thoughts...
Unconditional love is to love without expectations.. its hard to do but believe me when you are done with it.. i mean if you can stop expecting from someone.. your life will be much merrier than you can think.. coz then nothing will hurt you.. in this big world neither we do hurt every passing one.. nor we get hurt just like that by everyone.. the only people who can hurt us or whom we can hurt are the one whom we love most or who loves us most.. hurting the one you love is like hurting yourself.. even more painful than that at times.. sometimes we do that unknowingly.. but sometimes we think hurting them will give us some kinda peace just like a sweet revenge.. but we are wrong always.. if you love truly then hurting that someone can never make you happy.. it'll just make you more restless.. more guilty.. but if you are just playing with words i love you.. i care for you.. then ofcourse you will feel satisfied after hurting the one who loves you.. its not that other one cant figure out the difference.. its just that may be he/she loves you so much and forgives you every time.. but for how long?? how long anyone can let you play with their self respect.. with their pride.. ?? so always be graceful.. towards those who loves you.. always be thankful to those who care for you.. coz in this selfish world you wont find many who can love you unconditionally..
Sometimes i wonder why do we fall in love at all... and the first answer comes to my mind is ..just to hurt ourselves.. according to my experience pain is another name of love.. yet its so beautiful... its something i want to be in.. actually we fall in love coz we have a beautiful heart.. a heart who can love someone more than one loves oneself.. we are exceptionally blessed by the Almighty.. some friends say you have a great mind but a very silly sensitive heart.. i smile.. coz if caring for someone you love ( when they have broken your heart many times) called silly.. then i dont mind coz its me.. i just cant dump my feelings in one garbage bag just like that and move on.. may be they feel they are more smater but in my eyes iam a better person atleast..
Sometimes i wonder why do we fall in love at all... and the first answer comes to my mind is ..just to hurt ourselves.. according to my experience pain is another name of love.. yet its so beautiful... its something i want to be in.. actually we fall in love coz we have a beautiful heart.. a heart who can love someone more than one loves oneself.. we are exceptionally blessed by the Almighty.. some friends say you have a great mind but a very silly sensitive heart.. i smile.. coz if caring for someone you love ( when they have broken your heart many times) called silly.. then i dont mind coz its me.. i just cant dump my feelings in one garbage bag just like that and move on.. may be they feel they are more smater but in my eyes iam a better person atleast..
True love is giving all times.. it gives such satisfaction that nothing is comparable in front of that feeling.. doing smaall small things for one you love.. a little smile on their face.. a twinkle in their eyes.. is enough to brightup many days.. a feeling that they are thinking about you doesnt matter how and in which way.. gives an immense happiness..
Its not possible that we dont expect anything at all from our beloved but try to keep the plant of expectation in the shadow of your love tree.. trim it time to time so that it cant over shadow your love.. coz true love is giving all times.. so what! if they dont understand.. dont care.. in your heart you know you did the right thing.. right..
*smiles*Madhuban khushboo deta hai..
saagar savan deta hai..
jeena uska jeena hai..
jo auro ko jeevan deta hai..
chalti hai lehra ke pawan..
ki saans sabhi ki chalti rahe..
logo ne tyag diye jeevan..
ki preet dilo mei palti rahe..
dil vo dil hai jo auro ko..
apni dhadkan deta hai..
Sorry for silly ramblings of a lost heart and not so confused mind.. if you cant figure out whats going on ..then chill coz i dont know either.. *smiles*
Labels: Love, Random ramblings
posted by faith at 3:54 PM, | 
11 Comments:
Hmmmm....lots to ponder about. All I would say is that "Love is a beautiful thing" :)
Faith - Good one!
I think man to man and woman to woman unconditioal love is "more likely" then men to women. Men to Women relations begins with emotions.....and anything that has emotions as its foundation will have hard time withstanding twisters of life!
I can be wrong as always....
ps: Even a mother of a six months old baby feeds him/her ONLY when she/he makes some nise..till then he/she is on her own....
I think man to man and woman to woman unconditioal love is "more likely" then men to women. Men to Women relations begins with emotions.....and anything that has emotions as its foundation will have hard time withstanding twisters of life!
I can be wrong as always....
ps: Even a mother of a six months old baby feeds him/her ONLY when she/he makes some nise..till then he/she is on her own....
Fantastic post faith,
juss kept me wondering.may be whatever happens happens for the best(started believing that now).
nyways as far as name goes 'pinky'..dat should do
juss kept me wondering.may be whatever happens happens for the best(started believing that now).
nyways as far as name goes 'pinky'..dat should do
anirudh.. you are rt its not restricted to any speciffic rship.. but ya when i wrote this i had smthing was going on within me so it went that way..
ricky.. yes indeed.. its beautiful *smiles*
ye manzilen.. anything that has emotions as its foundation will have hard time withstanding twisters of life!
i dont agree with this.. will you like to be with smone with whom u are nt attached emotionally?? i certainly wont.. coz it will be as same as living in a concrete building.. lifeless.. just plain weird.. nt only man-woman but all relations in world depends only on emotions mainly..
ricky.. yes indeed.. its beautiful *smiles*
ye manzilen.. anything that has emotions as its foundation will have hard time withstanding twisters of life!
i dont agree with this.. will you like to be with smone with whom u are nt attached emotionally?? i certainly wont.. coz it will be as same as living in a concrete building.. lifeless.. just plain weird.. nt only man-woman but all relations in world depends only on emotions mainly..
pinky.. may be whatever happens happens for the best
ye its another way to look at things.. much positive may be..
"pinky" cool like it *smiles*
ye its another way to look at things.. much positive may be..
"pinky" cool like it *smiles*
Hai Janam ka jo ye rishta to BADALTA kiyon hai?
Good one Faith!! Keep Posting!!
Good post,love is anything pure and true....
Infatuation should never be mistaken for love, love is pure, true and if you have to hide it is not love it is a mistake and a sin in front of almighty.
Infatuation should never be mistaken for love, love is pure, true and if you have to hide it is not love it is a mistake and a sin in front of almighty.
i completly agree with wat anonymous said.
Infactuation and love are completely 2 different things,but sometimes u juss dont know how to distinguish between them.
Infactuation and love are completely 2 different things,but sometimes u juss dont know how to distinguish between them.
ye manzilen.. pata nahi kyo badalta hai..
all smiles.. thanks..
anonymous.. if you have to hide its not love
true.. thanks for dropping by..
pinky.. *smiles*
all smiles.. thanks..
anonymous.. if you have to hide its not love
true.. thanks for dropping by..
pinky.. *smiles*
well this is the best to which one can ever think..wud just like to add that the loved one or the most loved one to be precise...can be anyone...like i love my sister the most...sometimes just restricting it to he for she or vice versa...dosen help...
n u r lucky if its ur soulmate..!